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Bianca Bitches: Dear men, it’s not a woman’s fault that you can’t get laid

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Dear “involuntarily celibate” men, it’s not a woman’s fault that they don’t want to have sex with you, it’s yours.

Involuntarily celibate men are those delusional enough to think that women are shallow and don’t want to go out with them because of their appearance, and thus hate and blame women for not wanting to have sex with them.

The basis of this way of thinking stems from the fact that some men feel that they are entitled to sex with a woman just because it is considered a natural function.

The concept of toxic masculinity, or machismo, plays a major role in laying down the groundwork behind the delusional beliefs held by incels.

In actuality, toxic masculinity plays a major role whenever violent, sexual, or authoritative acts are carried out by men against women.

Brett Kavanaugh is the most current example of toxic masculinity and transferring the thought that men are entitled to a woman’s body.

Most incels think that women don’t want to have sex with them because women focus too much on appearances.

In actuality, majority of women prefer personality over appearance when finding a partner.

So, incels, unfurl your neanderthal brow for just a second and do some critical thinking, women don’t want to have sex with you because of your “ugly” appearance, they don’t want to have sex with you because you have a shitty personality.

A woman isn’t going to drop their panties for some scummy guy who refers to a woman as a slut just because. They want to get hot and heavy with a man that will actually respect them and their body.

A woman’s sexuality is not free game for men to take advantage of because incel’s still believe in the archaic construct that because men have a penis and women have a vagina that they must have sex with each other like bunnies in heat.

So, self-proclaimed incels, grow the fuck up and take responsibility for your self-inflicted abstinence, don’t project your sexual frustration onto women.

Some incels take on violent and misogynistic ideals, that involve raping and/or murdering women, and still have the nerve to question why there are not in a relationship.

Some women have been murdered for rejecting unwanted advances from men.

While we are on the subject of men murdering women, there has been a couple of incels who have actually murdered women, and then were applauded by fellow incels for their actions.

Elliot Rodger and Alek Minassian were both self-proclaimed incels and have both committed violent acts due to their radical incel idealization.

Minassian killed 10 people and injured more than a dozen in Toronto, Canada after driving a van through crowded streets.

Rodger shot and killed six people and attempted to enter a sorority in Isla Vista, he also openly expressed incel ideas online.

Reddit has even banned incels for their hate speech and violent attitudes directed towards women, but I don’t think it should stop there.

We, as a society, must stop putting so much emphasis on male privilege and that men are robust beings that grab women against their will, drape them over their shoulder and have their way with them.

It’s time to cut the “me, Tarzan. You, Jane.” crap and realize that the days of being uncouth cretins, are over.

Here’s the thing, incels want to be in a relationship that doesn’t involve the important aspects of a healthy relationship. Incels only want the part of the relationship that involves having sexual intercourse on a regular basis.

Nothing says boyfriend material like a guy who would rather rape you than participate in the aspects of an intimate relationship.

Well, sweethearts, you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Why can’t we, as a society, recognize how screwed up incel ideals are?

The concept of incels is essentially radicalized male privilege.

These men feel victimized by women for something as benign as being rejected, yet they do not comprehend that women are victimized on a never-ending basis.

If incels want to get laid so much, they must stop with the self-entitlement and self-pity and take responsibility for their own disposition, maybe then they won’t have to depend on their hand for intimate companionship.

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    DamDec 25, 2018 at 4:32 pm

    how do you know about someone´s personality If you don´t even talk to him to begin with?

    Because that´s what incels suffer all the time.

    Women don´t even talk to us.

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