At Cerritos College, Valentine’s Day has evolved beyond the traditional celebration of romance. For Generation Z students, those between 13 and 28 years old, Feb. 14 has become a day to embrace self-love, deep friendships, and new ways of connecting that challenge conventional norms.
In the hallways and across campus, the holiday is no longer defined by red roses, couples holding hands, and heart-shaped chocolates. Instead, it’s a day to reflect on the broader meaning of love and celebrate it in all its forms.
“I like Valentine’s Day, but honestly, I don’t see it as just a day for couples,” said Joselyn Gonzales, a 20-year-old psychology student. “For me, it means more than holding hands. It’s a reminder to cherish my friendships and take care of myself and my family.”
Gonzales’ perspective echoes a growing trend among her generation, shaped by academic pressures, the pandemic, and a hyperconnected world. For many young people, Valentine’s Day is an opportunity to prioritize self-care and honor the importance of platonic relationships.
The campus reflects this shift in sentiment. On Tuesday, Feb. 8, Falcon Square was abuzz with students preparing for the holiday. Some couples created baskets of sweets for their partners, while others planned celebrations with friends. As pink and red decorations adorned the campus, students shared their diverse perspectives on the meaning of the day.
“Valentine’s Day is an opportunity to express affection without any restrictions,” said Arleth Jones, a psychology student who enjoys the traditional aspects of the holiday. “I love this season because it’s a time to show more love. I can write notes and give chocolates to my friends, siblings, and favorite professors. I also see it as a day to express gratitude.”
For business student Jose Guadalupe Oliveros, Valentine’s Day is less about romance and more about camaraderie. “My friends and I are planning a date because we don’t need a partner to feel loved,” Oliveros said. “We’re having a party at one of our houses with music and food.”
This shift in how Generation Z celebrates Valentine’s Day mirrors broader changes in their approach to relationships. According to recent studies by the Pew Research Center, young people value emotional authenticity over grand romantic gestures. They are more likely to prioritize their mental health, communicate boundaries, and seek connections that align with their values.
Modern relationships among students also reflect this evolution. Many young people are exploring non-traditional bonds, such as long-distance relationships, open partnerships, and friendships that grow into something deeper.
As Cerritos College prepares for Valentine’s Day, one thing is clear: there’s no single way to celebrate. For some, it’s a day for romance. For others, it’s a time to appreciate friends, family, and personal growth. Regardless of how it’s observed, Feb. 14 has become a reflection of Generation Z’s evolving definition of love.
