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Cerritos College • Norwalk, Calif.

Talon Marks

Cerritos College • Norwalk, Calif.

Talon Marks

Cerritos College • Norwalk, Calif.

Talon Marks

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Friends with beneifts

Imagine a relationship of not having to deal with the restrictions from being able to do all of the things that you want to do being single. As an individual you want to have your own space, but at the same time you want to enjoy the company of a friend who you can also express yourself sexually with.  

Friends with benefits is what its most popularly known by. Having a sexual, intimate, lover who is also your companion can benefit you in ways that you would never get to experience in a relationship.

Instead this is a relationship that celebrates the feelings that two friends have for each other, without the extra commitment that gives them the entitlement of boyfriend and girlfriend.

What are the major benefits of sex with your friend? Well, for one, you don’t have to be serious relationship where your emotionally attached. Two, you can go still proceed with your own life and be socially active.

Most importantly,  there is nothing to fight about when you have an open relationship with your friend. With an honest relationship with your friend doesn’t bring issues with trust, arguments, and making time for each other, which can get in the way of the things that you really want to do.

Of course everyone who is in a serious commitment don’t feel this exact way. For those who don’t want to feel like they have to take an oath to someone should probably take an alternative route that doesn’t co-exist with having to be in love.

The love for your friend are from the qualities that you learned about them from just being friends. Having the attraction for one another does boost its advantages of having amazing sex in bed, but when your out of the sheets your still able to maintain a friendship that is tangible.

Unlike a committed relationship, there aren’t risks of ending up in a broken heart. Although, yes, there are possibilities of being hurt from your sexual friend when one starts to feel something more for the other, but the pain isn’t as great when you’ve been stable with someone for so long.

Friends with benefits has its greats opportunities to explore yourself sexually and mentally. Your self-esteem arises as the sex between you and your friend starts to escalate. But through the exploration with your friend be sure to talk about certain boundaries that you wouldn’t want to cross with each other.

No one wants to get hurt if they are having sex with their friend. The sex is great, you two talk can talk just about anything, So why would you want to start having a sexual relationship with anyone else?

This is where the complications can start with having a sex friend.  By communicating with one another when things start to change, should be the time to start heading a different direction from each other.

If things start to grow within the relationship between you and your friend, then its always best to convey your feelings with one another.

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