Dear Talon Talks,
I’m a gay male, but have very bad gaydar. I have a huge crush on a guy in my class but I’m not sure if he’s gay. I don’t want to freak him out or anything. Plus every time he talks to me, I freeze and have no idea how to act around him.
How do I know whether someone is gay or not without being blunt, and how do I act around my crush?
Well first things first you have to get up the nerves to talk to him. Even if it is something about the class you need to open the line of communication, the more comfortable he feels around you the better your odds are of finding out if he is interested.
Gay or straight the cues of attraction are pretty universal, you don’t have to ask him you just need to talk to him and get to know him a little better.
Hope all goes well,
Talon Talks
