If you are in your 20s and reading this, then get up and pat your ass, if you don’t feel a pamper then grow the fuck up and stop acting like a child with petty ideals.

So now that you have gotten your kicks touching your own ass in public, have a seat and take in the advice “Bianca Bitches” is going to provide.

In the era of social media and being able to hide behind a phone screen, it opens up the floodgates for those who have nothing better to do but rain on your parade. Here is my advice to those who have found themselves the target of petty projectiles:

• Block whoever is doing shit to you. Block them from all of your social media platforms and block them from life in general — if you don’t have their support, then they don’t deserve the time of day from you.
• Focus on yourself and your goals. Remember you alone are in charge of your course in life, no one else is going to get you where you need to be except you, yourself, and I.
• Develop a thick skin. There is always going to be someone who doesn’t like you for some reason, who doesn’t agree with who you are as a person or simply doesn’t want to see you succeed due to some fault of their own. If you know in actuality that you are not an asswipe of a person then it’s just another person’s envy rearing its ugly head.
• Boost your self-esteem. The worst thing you can do is make it obvious to the one being petty that they got under your skin. If you are confident and secure in who you are as a person then their negative vibes and bad energy will roll off you like “water off a duck’s back.”
• Understand that you have a personal bill of rights and you reserve the right to be happy so don’t feel bad or mean if you have to cut petty people out of your life.

With that being said, here is some advice for those being petty, trust me, you know exactly who you are:

• Stop being a little bitch. It’s honestly not that hard, if me telling you to “stop being a little bitch” offended you then please refer to the second bullet point and develop a thicker skin.

• Communication. If you have a problem with someone, then be civil and let them know face to face, instead of being catty behind a screen. Show some balls since you think you have some.

• Find yourself. If you find yourself slinging snide remarks through social media, that means that you have to much time on your hands so instead of being miserable toward others, find ways to better yourself as a person because right now you are a shitty one.

• Stay in your own lane, jet plane. Why concern yourself with the life of another person you are only seeking to negatively impact? Remember, karma is a bitch if you are.

Look, life is already shitty enough on its own, with constant shootings, the world dying and hate making a comeback so don’t supply to the hate by making someone else’s life miserable just because you are.